According to European Journal of Psychopathology, between 5%-6% men suffer from PTSD. Way fewer than 5% of Earth’s population has been in combat.

The PTSD Viking

“Don’t look back. You’re not going that way.” PTSD means carrying a huge, heavy mirror everywhere you go. Closing your eyes won’t make it disappear. So, look back. See it. Face it. Watch it turn into transparent glass. You may choose to forgive, although you won’t forget. What matters is no longer being ashamed of harm that’s been inflicted upon you.

While this website is technically aimed at men with PTSD, women can possibly benefit from some of the articles – as long as you remember I have no experience what it’s like to be a woman and how different your pain can be from mine.

About me

I have never seen a war, apart from a TV screen; I’ve only seen one dead person, who was my elderly mother in law; I have never been in a major accident, a victim of a cult, or whatever you probably associate with PTSD. In 2012, on my 35th birthday, I was misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder. I then proceeded to spend twelve years in the mental health system before receiving the right diagnosis: extreme complex PTSD, childhood abuse.

I am writing those words less than nine months since my diagnosis. I am in full remission now. It feels a lot as if the prison gates have opened. I’ve got a lot to share and I am free from shame that has been stopping me until now.

Photo: a man with c-PTSD (me)

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Why my blog is paywalled

My blog is on Patreon and only accessible to paying patrons. Not because I want to make money out of it, which is not to say I’d be displeased if that happened. The $1 and the $1000 tier will get you the same: access – with me knowing you are 18+ and being able to kick you out if you’re an asshole. The non-18+ posts will be accessible to anyone… unless some asshole makes me change my mind, so please don’t ruin the fun for everyone, ‘k?

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